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Children need holistic development
Vijay Garg4/8/2022 11:41:16 PM
It is natural for parents to be concerned about the future of their children. When these anxieties and efforts to get a job or a destination for their children overwhelm the children then many problems start and most of the parents in this race. Parents try to get their child to get 100% marks, if the same child gets 90% marks then they are asked questions instead of praising him. How did the nine-tenth percentage point decrease?
This has a great effect on the child’s psyche. The ninety percent marks obtained by the child by doing his best are equal to zero and he starts comparing himself with those who have less marks. He should try his best to get more marks in the future. Such a child would be beaten for ninety percent of the marks he got and his achievement would be celebrated in his own way at home. And in the next few days, the child could have a meaningful discussion to work harder, even ninety percent marks are not less.
The other skills bestowed upon them by nature need to enable them to set an example to the world. We need not aim at the child to get his career or score, but to recognize his inner art. This can be done well by his teacher. That is, if the parents ask him politely to send it to the field according to the child’s interest.
But the reality now is that the opposite is happening, every time parents go to school they complain about why it didn’t come first in the class. Parents should keep going to school and discuss with their teachers in the school that their child should not only study but also play sports, literature, stage, art etc. Who pays more attention to the area in which the child is interested should be given opportunities in that area as it is natural.
Education means all round development then why are we trying to make it a bookworm? The child needs to be strong in both mental and physical health for growth and development, this will happen if you allow a book bag to be removed from his back. As soon as the afternoon comes, tuition, in such a situation, when will he get tired and play and when will he do some petty mischief?
Ah Nursery, Pre-Nursery has killed a lot of children. There was a time when a child was enrolled in first class at the age of six or seven and started learning English ABC from sixth grade. What child would not have become a scientist or an officer then? We believe that the age of competition is hard working and the child should be prepared according to this age but don’t make him a number taking machine, his childhood is not good to cry. As long as the child is a child, do not put so much weight of books on him that he will be buried under the books. As much as he needs to succeed, if there is no desire then no one can get anything by mixing in it.
Identify your child’s interests and let him or her choose his or her own field and if that happens he or she will surely succeed in life. Skills are needed to make money. This skill can be in any field of human being. Every child has some or the other skill, just need to identify it in time. Give your child an open sky, don’t pave the way, He will make the way himself.
Don’t try to make your child what you can’t become or what you want to become but let him become what he wants to be or else he may not be able to be what you want him to be or what he wants you to be. He can stay far behind and teach him to walk in the society.
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